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"This is the power of gathering: it inspires us, delightfully, to be more hopeful, more joyful, more thoughtful: in a word, more alive."   - Alice Waters

 

A notebook about how we work, learn, love and live.
This week the board of a foundation I serve on met wholly in person for the first time since the pandemic. And this week one of my teams and I got to meet in a restaurant with a client we had previously only known on Zoom.

There is such power to be found in being together, in the same room, at the same time. Synapses are fired that can only be made when we are in proximity to each other. Connections are made that spontaneously bloom without any intellectual effort.

As we all experiment with new ways of living and working together, it is impossible to imagine shoe-horning ourselves into a 9-5 office environment again. But it is equally impossible to imagine life without the simple magic that occurs when we gather together in one space, at one time.

Happy Friday.
Community, Public Spaces
A library in a working-class neighborhood that specializes in Latin American literature has been named the best library in the world.
The Biblioteca Gabriel García Márquez. Image: Biblioteques de Barcelona
"A Barcelona library specializing in Latin American literature has been named the best new public library in the world by the International Federation of Library Associations and Institutions at its congress in Rotterdam.

"The library, named after the Nobel-winning Colombian novelist Gabriel García Márquez, opened last year in the working-class neighborhood of Sant Martí de Provençals.

"In awarding the prize, the jury praised both its architecture and its innovative approach to encouraging local people to use the resource, the interaction between staff and the local community, the flexibility of the spaces and services, the commitment to learning and the sustainability of the building." - Stephen Burgen 

Article: Barcelona Community Resource Named World’s Best New Public Library
Personal Development
"Choose 'enlargement' over happiness," and 7 other things Oliver Burkeman learned in 10 years of writing an advice column
Oliver Burkeman says we'll go nuts if we try not to neglect anything. Instead we should spend our precious energy "proactively and consciously choosing what to neglect, in favor of what matters most."

Before Oliver Burkeman was known as the author of the popular book Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management For Mortals, he was the writer of a popular advice column in the Guardian’s Weekend magazine. Three years ago this month he wrote a final column, one that gathered some of what he had learned. He did not intend the article to be an exhaustive summary, "but these are the principles that surfaced again and again, and that now seem to me most useful for navigating times as baffling and stress-inducing as ours."

He had me at the first one: "There will always be too much to do – and this realization is liberating."

Article: Oliver Burkeman's Last Column: The Eight Secrets to a (Fairly) Fulfilled Life
Audience
People are a whole lot more than just "users".
When it comes to communication, I am a broken record. Always start by asking: "With whom are we speaking?". The more nuanced and detailed we are in understanding our audience, the better our communications with them will be. So I was thrilled to stumble on this simple list of the dangers in thinking of audiences as just users.

"A seismic social shift has taken place seeing much of humanity transition from a person to a user. We are all complicit in this shift. We each clicked 'I agree'. We perpetuate and propagate it. We are now the users, the using and the used." - Ted Hunt

Article: Users Are.. / People Are..
Living Together
"The truth is, rarely can a response make something better. What makes something better is connection." Brené Brown on empathy
There are two really good reasons to watch this short, 3-minute video. 1. It's produced by RSA, "the royal society for the encouragement of arts, manufactures and commerce". The RSA has been at the forefront of significant social impact for over 260 years and one of the things they do brilliantly is tell stories to convey important information. 2. The author and narrator is Dr Brené Brown, and she knows a thing or two about making empathic connection.

Video: Brené Brown on Empathy
How We Live
Intentional communities may offer solutions for loneliness and other problems of an atomized society.
Kristen R. Ghodsee is a professor and chair of Russian and East European Studies at the University of Pennsylvania. She is the author of 12 books, including: Second World, Second Sex: Socialist Women's Activism and Global Solidarity during the Cold War and Why Women Have Better Sex Under Socialism: And Other Arguments for Economic Independence

“'Today’s future-positive writers critique our economies while largely seeming to ignore that anything might be amiss in our private lives,' writes Kristen Ghodsee. Even our most ambitious visions of utopia tend to focus on outcomes that can be achieved through public policy — things like abundant clean energy or liberation from employment — while ignoring many of the aspects of our lives that matter to us the most: how we live, raise our children, and tend to our most meaningful relationships.

"Ghodsee’s new book, 'Everyday Utopia: What 2,000 Years of Wild Experiments Can Teach Us About the Good Life,' is an attempt to change that. The book is a tour of radical social experiments from communes and ecovillages to “platonic parenting” and intentional communities. But, on a deeper level, it’s a critique of the way existing structures of family and community life have left so many of us devoid of care and connection, and a vision of what it could mean to organize our lives differently." - Ezra Klein Producers

[You can listen to this episode of “The Ezra Klein Show” on AppleSpotifyAmazon MusicGoogle or wherever you get your podcasts.]

The Ezra Klein Show: What Communes and Other Radical Experiments in Living Together Reveal
Economics, Civics
"Many of the key political and economic institutions of our society have abandoned their commitments to the common good — and along the way, abandoned the bottom half of the adult population."


"Much of the public no longer believes that the major institutions of America are working for the many; they are vessels for the few.

"When the game is widely seen as rigged in favor of those at the top, society shifts from a system of mutual obligations to a system of private deals. Rather than be founded in the common good, political and social relationships increasingly are viewed as contracts whose participants seek to do as well as possible, often at the expense of others (workers, consumers, the community, the public) who are not at the table. 

"When it’s all about making deals, one 'gets ahead' by getting ahead of others. Duty is replaced by self-aggrandizement and self-promotion. Calls for sacrifice or self-denial are replaced by personal demands for better deals." - Robert Reich


Book Excerpt: Why Have So Many Americans Succumbed to Trumpism?

Related Article: Kershaw’s Insights: Economic Uncertainty and the Rise of Populism

One-liners

Article: Pangaia's digital passports make reselling clothing as easy as scanning a QR code.

Article: Nespresso launches its first paper-based coffee capsules that are compostable at home.

Article: Pontevedra, Spain, offers some of the best evidence available about what happens when a city is reconfigured to accommodate people, rather than cars.

Article: South Dakota is the only US state without a ska band.

Article: ‘Treebank’ in England features wood from thousands of different tree species.

Creativity, Harbingers
The utopian proto-hippy who wrote a song that Nat King Cole made a hit in 1948.
This unattributed photo of eden ahbez, the writer of Nat King Cole’s 1948 classic Nature Boy, was shot in California not in 1968 but in the lates 40s or early 50s.

"In late March 1948, the King Cole Trio released their second 78rpm single of the year...Nature Boy stayed at the top of the US pop charts for eight weeks in the spring of 1948, at a time of rapidly increasing tension: the start of the cold war and the anti-communist purge. For such a gentle, pacifistic song to have become the bestselling single of the year speaks to a sense of inchoate longing in the US at that time, barely three years after the second world war.

"After Nature Boy became a hit, in an appearance on the CBS show We the People, Cole finally met the man who had written his song, the year’s bestseller. In archive clips of the episode, eden ahbez (the lower case was preferred) has hair down to his shoulders and wears loose-fitting clothes; his style is nearly two decades ahead of his time. Reading from prepared scripts, these two outliers – a proto-hippy and an early African American crossover artist – tell the story of how Cole discovered the song, after it was delivered on spec to the Los Angeles theatre where he was performing. To the incredulity of the host, ahbez announces that he has 'not much use for money'. It’s no small irony that this devotee of simple living – albeit with an entrepreneurial side – is being presented on a talkshow on a major US network, produced by Life magazine and sponsored by Gulf Oil. As ahbez rides on to the stage on his bicycle and then assumes a yoga position, he makes it clear that he will not conform to the values of corporate America: in his sheer strangeness, he is a harbinger of things to come." - Jon Savage

Article: Mother Nature’s Son: The Exotic World of Songwriter eden ahbez

Playlist
Nature Boy has been covered by artists as diverse as John Coltrane and David Bowie. But there is a special magic in the chemistry that Tony Bennett and Lady Gaga conjure together. Both are masters of song. Both are masters in the art of collaboration. 

This performance was recorded before an audience of NYC music and performing arts students at Lincoln Center July 28, 2014 with a 39-piece orchestra conducted by Jorge Calandrelli, an orchestra that included members of Bennett's quartet and Gaga's quintet. This song features an elegantly tasteful guitar solo by Gray Sargent.

Video: Lady GaGa & Tony Bennett Sing "Nature Boy" | Great Performances on PBS
Weekly Mixtape
Music inspired by the life and work of eden ahbez

Playlist: Nature Boy
Image of the Week

"A presentation of entomology specimens arranged within one aisle of the Entomology Department compactor collection cabinets at the Smithsonian Institution’s National Museum of Natural History. Designed to illustrate the size and scope of the Entomology collection. May 9, 2006."  - Kate Sierzputowski

Article: Explore the Vast Scientific Collections of D.C.’s National Museum of Natural History Paired with Respective Experts

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